Remember as a kid wanting to go to a friends house or eating just one more cookie and mom saying firmly "NO!" No was a disappointing answer. Still is, doesn’t matter who says no a boss, life, God. No means we don’t get our way, depending on the desire/dream it might even be depressing.
I thought that having God or life say no was the hardest thing, the whole process of letting go and moving on. I was wrong. The unknown is harder then a "known no". With a "no" you do have a chance to move on. With an unknown you have no clue. Life and the future are a mystery. It means waiting…and waiting…and waiting. I am not good at waiting. Patience is not a virtue I possess.